I serve in a ministry that lets me respond to emails from people all over the world who are seeking Jesus. Three years ago, one particular lady (I’ll call Sandy) and I wrote back and forth about 30 times. Sandy is a Christian but found herself in an unexpected and unwanted pregnancy. We shared such long, mutually respectful emails back and forth. My heart broke over her situation in life, the terrible hardships she had been through, the struggles her other children had faced.
She said she knew her baby was alive, a real person, and that abortion was ending that life, but she saw no other way despite the many resources I provided.
Then suddenly, she stopped replying to my emails.
Per policy, I could only write a maximum of three more times if she was no longer responding. I prayerfully wrote those emails (then one final one) and let her know I was praying. That I loved her. That no matter her choice, I would still care for her and want to stay in touch.
I was so discouraged at one point that I almost quit this ministry. But I kept thinking, “What if Sandy writes back?”
This week, three years later, she did.
No, I didn’t ask the outcome of her pregnancy. I didn’t ask if her 3-year old son or daughter was doing well or if she’d aborted. Instead, I felt God say just love her, as I said I would. Just remind her of God’s great love for her. Pray for her. Don’t give up on her.
She said she’s praying each night before bed. She’s still seeking to be closer to the Lord. And all this time, God’s still been working behind the scenes.
Have you given up on the one you are praying for? Seeing no results? Don’t give up. God’s still working.