Instead of thinking of my recent trials as a period of hurt followed by a period of victory (hopefully soon), God opened my eyes to see it as one continuous theme: A good surprise waiting to be revealed. Like a kid waiting for her birthday present, the waiting and the anticipation and even the temporary “without”-ness of life are not meant to take my joy but to increase it.
Looking back, I realize I laughed less in the midst of these hard times. I internalized my stress so that I had regular heartburn. Despite good things emerging (growing closer to God and stronger in my marriage), I did not smile as often.
Is this a mistake? Well, the Bible says that the Joy of the Lord is my Strength. I prayed for strength often – I only prayed for joy once. Not that I could have endured it without some worry, some concern, or some life modifications. But I could have endured it with more smiles and laughter.
Looking back at my other trials, I see the improved character or deeper relationship with God that were forged as a result. This hindsight improves as the “time” distance lengthens. Some hard lessons I learned as a child only now appear relevant. Tonight, my Bible Study teacher told me to have this hindsight NOW – in advance – before my trials are over.
- While my dad is still recovering from surgery (praise God the cancer did not spread!)
- While we are still praying for wisdom about a job for my husband.
- While we are uncertain about upcoming changes in our children’s schooling.
- While our living room still bears a few marks left by the tree.
If I were to fast forward 10 more weeks – what would I look back at today and see? Could I find a reason NOT to worry? A reason NOT to be afraid? A reason NOT to let the good things of today pass by unnoticed? A reason to laugh?
Jesus, instead of seeing life as a series of valleys and mountains, help me see it as Your unified purpose, Your ultimate plan to bring good, not evil – to continue the good work You started in me and my family. Thank You for today. Give me Your joy and enable me to laugh now – before the hard times are over.